Cali Buns

I’m warm, playful, curious, very affectionate, a little cheeky and genuinely love good company.

I have a creative streak and a very active brain so I’m always interested in people who have something going on. I love beautiful dinners and dressing up but I also love galleries, long lunches, random conversations that go completely off track, cocktails, laughing too much and slow mornings somewhere lovely.

I tend to connect best with intelligent, interesting men who have a life of their own. Professionals, founders, creatives, travellers, collectors, quietly successful types or just men who are curious about the world and like being around someone who is too.

Confidence is sexy. Ego, less so.

I like good conversation, generosity of spirit, people who are comfortable in themselves and that tingle of tension and anticipation when you can tell there’s chemistry.

I’m feminine and sensual and naturally very affectionate but I’m also silly and irreverent and I like being able to actually have fun with someone. I don’t want a date to feel overly formal or like we’re both playing a part. I want us to enjoy each other.

Laughing. Flirting. Eating something delicious. Talking about everything and nothing. Getting distracted. Letting the hours disappear a little.

That’s much more my style than watching the clock.

I’m particularly fond of longer, unhurried dates for that reason. Long lunches, daytime escapes, dinners, evenings that turn into overnights, lazy mornings together, weekends away. I think chemistry gets so much better when there’s actually enough time for both people to relax into it.

I’m also naturally a morning person, so daytime dates are very welcome. I genuinely love them. Breakfast, lunch, wandering around somewhere interesting, disappearing for a few hours in the middle of the day. There’s something very fun about stepping out of normal life when everyone else is still at work.

I love meeting someone new but I also really adore familiarity.

Seeing the same person again and having it get easier and warmer every time is wonderful. Knowing your drink. Remembering what you told me last time. Picking up an old conversation. Having our own jokes. Planning something together. Knowing what the other person likes without having to ask every single time.

That sort of connection is very much my thing.

I have a full life outside of this too. I’m creative, I love looking after myself, I like having projects and plans and things I’m excited about. Because of that, I really appreciate men who enjoy planning ahead and giving us something to look forward to.

And while I love beautiful places and beautiful things, I’m not interested in being overly polished or pretending to be serious all the time. I’m much more interested in warmth, chemistry, intelligence, affection and being with someone where it feels easy.

Something that feels less like an appointment and more like we’ve temporarily disappeared from normal life together.

If that sounds like your kind of company, I suspect we’ll get along very well.